The R Word

I remember I had a mock interview as an assessment back in college time, and when being asked what do I wanna achieve in life, I answered a very general and shallow answer, that I wanted to be successful . So I remember very clearly that the lecturer asked me, so what do you define as success ? and I answered with some crappy fifth grader answer, that I wanted to be able to go wherever I want, to be able to travel or work overseas. A big LOL whenever I think back. So the lecturer just nodded and moved on to another question. Guess he able to tell that this student's brain isn't prepared for the deep philosophical discussion about what is the definition of success. Fast forward to 7 years later til today, this question still lies in my head. I guess I haven't got the answer yet, or a truthful answer. So if you are reading this, this post is for you to ask yourself. What do you define as success? ;) I may get mine answer when the time's right. When the inspira

My mum said, “Life is fragile, it is only few breaths away. When someone covers your mouth and doesn’t let you breathe for a minute and so, you will lose your breath and die.” Nothing is certain in this world. While we busy chasing for fame, success, money, reputation, etc, do you feel certainly happy with your life?  Are those comparisons in social media, ie: someone’s life seems better than yours, someone’s body is better than yours, relationship goals, all those yolo hash tags; someone get their house at age of 25, someone’s job better than yours, someone traveling to where n where .., really matters that much? Why do you let yourself wasting life feeling inferior comparing to these people? My beloved family member is ill. This was what we learn from this round of going back to Ipoh. Feel very shocked and horrified with the thought of she will be more ill if things are going wrong. Feel like I didn’t do enough. Whatever I may try to do, at this point, it doesn’t mean anything anymor

https://www.ted.com/talks/chimamanda_ngozi_adichie_we_should_all_be_feminists/transcript Strikes . me . on. point. We gonna revamp the whole education to girls.

I might not be the best but I should always strive to be the best version of myself. Self doubt kills more dreams than failure. 2019 year. The year to achieve more positivity and less self doubt. Every single thing there are two sides of it. TO think positive is to see the good side of every single event. - You could be making mistake at work - but you learn how not to make that mistake anymore - You may be having that item in your wishlist that you can't get yet - at least you get to dream of it and be motivated with that - You fell sick - you find out who is there to take care of you - You fail in your business - you one step closer to success by gaining that experience of failing. Just my two cents, don't stop trying.